What are Blessings? I remember one day, many years ago, a dog show mentor of mine sneezed, was blessed randomly, then said, “who is that person to say bless you to me? Does he have a direct connection to God or something?” While I love this person, that comment did not sit well with me. I’ve given it much thought over the years. Who does have the right to offer blessings?
The truth is we all do have a direct connection to God; it’s our choice to acknowledge and cultivate that connection that makes it more direct. A blessing is not a superstition or a mystical offering that’s incomprehensible. They can be spoken or silent, with actions or stillness. Blessings are freely open to us all. No one needs to be ordained or specially trained. A blessing from your best-friend can be just as powerful as one from your minister. It’s a simple matter of awareness of their connection to the One.
Do you say “bless you” when someone sneezes,? That’s what my friend above objected to; a random stranger offering blessings. After years of reflection, I can only determine that my friend objected to an apparently unskilled offering. It is true that a spiritual leader has more Shakti to offer. The power of speech, or Matrika Shakti, is a powerful force and flows from our connection to God, filtered through our gates of speech. When offerings are made by one who understands the flow of Matrika Shakti, the offering is more powerful. So yes, a blessing offered by a spiritually connected individual is more powerful.
So, what does this mean for the average person? Why did my friend object? It all relates back to our intention. When I was working at the RDU airport, part of my job was to greet passengers in the hallways between gates. I probably said “good morning” over 100 times per day. Being that I’m a yogi, I noticed the pattern of greeting people immediately and set an intention for each salutation to have meaning. Only once did I find myself offering a meaningless “good morning” and that one mindless act impacted me greatly. Odds are, my one auto-programmed response caused no harm, but it likely facilitated no good. That’s what blessings are: offerings of goodness from your heart intended to affirm the recipient. Good morning, good afternoon and other salutations are also blessings, so make them powerful. Blessings can be your words or your actions. If your true intention is an offering of good wishes with nothing in return, then you are offering a blessing. On the mat, you can experience both mental and physical blessings. We set a mental intention prior to classes and hold it during class; it’s appropriate for this intention to be a blessing to yourself. Each time you do a pose, it’s an opportunity to send yourself a blessing and make each pose a physical expression of that blessing. What a beautiful reason to practice yoga. Here’s what I recommend: stop and receive a breath to connect to your heart prior to offering a blessings. When we connect to our hearts, we all become spiritual leaders. Even if you’re leading a community of one, you are tapped into your divine Self and are worthy to offer blessings to anyone.
May we all step into the power of Grace so we filter the Shakti we offer from our hearts. Much love to you all.
Warm Regards,
Michael L. Ward, LMBT
Certified Anusara Yoga Instructor






